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Book Review: How to Create Chemistry with Anyone

January 14th, 2013 by Sheila

Whether in love, seeking love or simply trying to understand the science of love and making a lasting connection, romantics will enjoy author Leil Lowndes’ new book – How to Create Chemistry with Anyone.

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, the guide book offers insight and tips on how to create the “spark” and make it last.

Lowndes shares 75 of her very best communication strategies and techniques based on personal stories and research spanning twenty years.

Understanding the key inherent differences between the sexes, physical and psychological, beyond the generalized Mars/Venus scenario is the first step in the process.

Sprinkle in nature versus nurture experiences, flaring emotions and a vulnerable situation or circumstance and you have a recipe for love.

Lowndes succinctly summarizes “Chemistry Makes the World Go Round”.

Chemistry leads to passion which will lead to love …and finally to what we all desire – lasting commitment.

Follow Lowndes on her literary exploration of what she calls “Limbic Land”.

 

 

Gals, below are a few cliff notes adapted from the book for consideration:

10 Ways to Create Lasting Love

  1. Recognize that the male and female brains are structurally different and produce different chemicals. So don’t expect your partner to really understand you.
  2. Aim to be sanely in love, not just crazy in love. Science proves that the passionate “want sex all the time” love lasts less than two years. But love can last forever – if you use both the emotional and rational parts of your brain.
  3. Make sure you and your partner have similar deep beliefs and values in life. Having smaller differences keep the excitement chemicals (like dopamine) churning. But harmony on the more weighty issues of life creates different chemicals (like oxytocin and vasopressin). Cognitive Science calls these “ the cuddle chemicals” and they result in “coupling”.
  4. Have matching definitions of “togetherness”.
  5. Find someone and be someone, who can be depended upon in both good times and bad.
  6. Encourage each other’s personal and professional growth. Share in his/her enthusiasm.
  7. Make an effort to keep your sex-life exciting.
  8. Don’t underestimate the power of touch. A kiss, a hung and hand holding – all of them create oxytocin in the brain that inspires feelings of love, trust and bonding.
  9. Make time to have fun with each other.
  10. Laugh together for any reason. When your body is laughing, your brain thinks you’re happy and identifies your partner as a source of joy.

 My Diva Top Lowndes’ Tips:

  • It’s all about THEM not you! Most men want sexy… so do sexy. Lure your man with hints of sex… then capture him with your qualities.
  • Acknowledge & Appraise. Scan the goods. And, show interest and approval with your smile andeyes.
  • Forget Fashion. Think Flirtation. Show some SKIN. Opt for adjustable not revealing clothing. Show only what you want to show not the whole package. And, if you must be conservative on the outside – be sexy and sizzling underneath. Think Catholic School Girl with Victoria Secret lingerie! Leave a little to his imagination.
  • A Secret Weapon is Silent Messaging. Think “Hot Thoughts” while holding or shaking his hand. He won’t know what hit him.

And, my ultimate favorite: “Say YES before he asks” (We ARE mind readers. Time to make YES easier than NO) with accepting cues setting the stage so he will not face his greatest fear – rejection.

Curious to learn more… be sure to snag a copy. The perfect V-Day gift for you and a friend!

Available in bookstores in February and online now.

 

 

MBT’s Valentine Contest

February 7th, 2012 by Teresa

Enter MBT Footwear’s fun Valentines contest for a chance to win a Jelly Belly Gift Box!

 

Yummy Yummy: Put your Money on Honey

January 28th, 2011 by Patti Mangan

The seduction has begun. Valentines is over two weeks away – but the slow steady beat of LOVE marketing is coming at all of us from all sides. Flowers, Jewelery. Romantic dinners. And THE all time slugfest of Chocolate in its many forms.

But this particular Ka-Pow is tempting, tantalizing and down right hard to stop thinking about.

It’s DROGA Confections Put Your Money on Honey – salted caramels made with Northern California wildflower honey, embedded in pure dark chocolate. Four heavenly chunks to savor over and under…

Handmade in small batches from 100% natural ingredients out of San Francisco by a fellow entrepreneur, Michelle could use a bit of LOVIN support! Place your orders online or shop at these Callifornia (so far) shops. And think in multiples – as it will save on your likely re-orders.

Northern California

Andronico’s Market
1200 Irving St
San Francisco, CA

Bi-Rite Market
3639 18th Street
San Francisco, CA

Draeger’s Market
222 E. Fourth Ave.
San Mateo, CA 94401

S. California

Goods
1748 Ocean Park Blvd.
Santa Monica, CA 90405

 

Les Mars Hotel and Lambert Bridge Winery provide luxe Valentine’s retreat

July 3rd, 2010 by Janice Nieder

A few weeks ago I received the following invitation from a friend of mine, Tony Giovanzana (the Director of Retail Operations at Dry Creek’s Lambert Bridge Winery):

I would like you to be our guest at a very special, once-in-a-lifetime dinner that we are hosting here at the winery. We have partnered with Paula Le Duc for this amazing dinner, six courses of exquisitely prepared cuisine paired with 14 vintages of Crane Creek Cuvee one of our flagship wines. We will be reaching into our library and presenting our 1994 through 2006 vintages. Jill Davis our winemaker and I will guide this intimate group through each flight of this Merlot based Bordeaux blend, hosted in our vaulted ceiling candle lit barrel room. The event date is February 13th with dinner beginning at 6:30pm. I have attached a copy of the menu for your convenient review:

PASSED HORS D’OEURVES

Wine Barrel Smoked Duck
Curried Pumpkin on Walnut Cranberry Crostini

Grilled Black Mission Fig
Wrapped in Boccalone Lardo

Mt. Tam
Offered “Soft Serve” with Dried Apricot in a savory Cone

Lemongrass Marinated Flank Steak
Coconut, Peanut & Mint
FIRST COURSE

1994, 1995 & 1996 Crane Creek Cuvée

paired with

Crisp Pork Belly
Chanterelles, Brabant Potatoes & Lemon-Thyme
SECOND COURSE

1997, 1998 & 1999 Crane Creek Cuvée

paired with

Bacon Wrapped Supreme of Poussin
Roasted in a Wood Oven served over a bed of Cannelini Beans with Braised Leeks
THIRD COURSE

2000, 2001 & 2002 Crane Creek Cuvée

paired with

Oxtail Ragout
Grains of Paradise Pappardelle & Mascarpone
FOURTH COURSE

2003, 2004 & 2005 Crane Creek Cuvée

paired with

Broken Arrow Ranch Venison
Celery Root Puree, Roasted Red Cipollini, & Huckleberry Beet Reduction
CHEESE COURSE

Redwood Hill Crottin
Rosemary Honeycomb, Crisp Walnut “Lattice” & Quince Butter
DESSERT

Cocoa Nib Dentelle Box
Filled with Chocolate Cremeaux, Cassis Poached Pear & Sweet Beet Praline Dust

Would love to have you at the event!
Give it some thought,
Tony

I really cracked up when I reached the “Give it some thought” line. As if!

Exactly, two seconds later I called Tony and said, “I would be thrilled to attend. Where should I spend the night? ”

Without missing a beat he replied, “You must stay at Les Mars in Healdsburg. It’s totally unbelievable.”

Which is how I came to spend Valentine’s Day in Healdsburg, all on my own and blissfully happy.

Les Mars Hotel

I entered Les Mars, just steps away from the main square, with sky-high expectations after reading copious rave reviews on this Relais & Chateaux property. Although I’m a tough critic, the next day as I sadly packed my bag singing my version of Michael Buble’s song, “I ( so don’t) wanna go home”, I realized the only thing that hadn’t been 100% perfect was that the bathroom make-up mirror didn’t light up. (When I mentioned this to Katy Ciocca, the hotel’s extraordinarily lovely, gracious G.M., she told me that they had just been ordered.)

The well-traveled Mars family (no relation to the candy bar) set out to create an elegant, sophisticated, European style hotel that offered exceptional Old World style hospitality.

To help realize their vision, the Mars hired Bay Area designer, Helga Horner, who began the project by asking, “How does one live beautiful?”

The answer is self evident in Les Mars’ antique Flemish tapestries, authentic Louis XV furniture, the leather-bound books found in the library’s carved walnut bookcases, the fresh flowers beautifully arranged throughout the 16 room hotel, and the petit private pool perfect for sunning and appreciating a nice glass of wine.

As I entered my glam suite, the Mansion Queen Room, featuring a cathedral high ceiling, flickering gas fireplace, a chilled bottle of wine at the ready, soft music playing, white orchids throughout and two insanely comfortable white, down-covered beds, I knew it was going to be tough to leave the nest. Except if I was heading over to the oversized marble bathroom, complete with Waterworks pewter fixtures, large bottles of Voss water, a deep Jacuzzi tub with accompanying lavender bath salts and scrubs, and assorted Bulgari toiletries—they even lined the drawers with hand-pressed linens. And kudos for supplying easy-to-follow written instructions, even with pictures, for the Jacuzzi, cd/dvd player, and the tv remote.

But stir I must since it was time to head over to Lambert Bridge for the tasting dinner, but not before I stopped downstairs for the complimentary wine (boutique) and cheese (artisan) tasting held in the library. The selection changes nightly and is conducted by the hotel’s consulting sommelier, Ron Washam. Ron is a wealth of wine info and is delighted to arrange special wine tours and tastings for the guests, including some secret off-the beaten wine-road suggestions.

After a glorious night’s sleep I was awakened by a soft tapping on the door, which was my breakfast-in-bed delivery, which consisting of a mélange of fresh berries, thick yogurt, homemade granola and a generous pot of dark coffee (thank God, after all the wine I had the night before) delivered bedside on a solid silver tray with starched linens, fine china, and a mini-bouquet of white roses. What a civilized way to start the day. Wait, a Mimosa would really hit the spot. “Hello… room service?”

Les Mars is not only a top choice for your next romantic getaway but it’s also perfect for a luxe girlfriend getaway. The staff would be happy to arrange spa treatments, bike rentals, gourmet picnics, limo-wine tours, or reserve dinner at Cyrus, the Michelin two-starred restaurant next door.

Lambert Bridge

That evening, as I drove cross the old trestle bridge and caught my first glimpse of the winery nestled into the hillside, it’s stone and rough wood lodge-like tasting room surrounded by an old-fashioned wrap-around porch (a perfect spot for sipping the afternoon away) it brought to mind a Rockefeller Great House.

Two gigantic wooden doors opened to the vaulted redwood tasting room, where about 50 guests were doing a little pre-dinner mingling, enjoying Hors D’Oeuvres and a glass of white wine in front of the welcoming stone fireplace before heading into the elegant candlelit Barrel Room.
I was introduced to Lambert Bridge’s gregarious winemaker, Jill Davis, who’s been producing some pretty spectacular artisanal Bordeaux-styled wines since her first vintage with Lambert Bridge in 2006. Previously, Davis made a name for herself at Beringer Vineyards, Buena Vista Winery and William Hill Winery. She’s passionate about creating classic wines in the old world style: rich, elegant and polished.

During dinner, Jill stood up and proudly introduced us to her brand new associate winemaker and longtime friend, Jennifer Higgins, who also has a stellar background in producing boutique Bordeaux varietals. It was exciting to be at the threshold of what I’m sure will be a revolutionary “Women in Winemaking” dream-team.

The Crane Creek Cuvee were all incredible with a cornucopia of flavor profiles, allowing for some spirited discussions at our table, as to which year paired better with each dish. I could definitely ascertain the different jammy red fruits, tobacco and leather notes, but shhhhh…they lost me at the pencil shavings.

Paula Le Duc’s food was not only delicious but beautifully presented. My favorite combos were the 1994 Crane Creek Cuvee with the Crisp Pork Belly and the 2002 vintage with the peppery, coriander flavored Grains of Paradise Pappardelle topped with Oxtail Ragout.

Although the 1997, 1998, and 1999 vintages are sold out, there are still many excellent years available. Jill vouched for the 2007 as a youngster with a lot of promise in the future. So, if you haven’t been before, I suggest the next nice weekend you plan a tasting (and a picnic) at the winery. The wines aren’t cheap but are well worth twice the price.

They also have a full calendar of special events that you can peruse on their website as well as information on joining their Liquid Assets wine club. One particularly fun sounding event is April’s Sausage Making class led by the master himself, Bruce Aidell.

Lambert Bridge Winery
4085 W. Dry Creek Road
Healdsburg, CA. 95448
Phone: 707-431-9600

 

V-Day Gifts with a Personal Touch

February 11th, 2010 by Joyce

Apart from your lover? Send a message from your bedroom alter ego, the one who can strip tease the hell out of Jamie Lee Curtis.

Put this on your wish list from him to you: The sweetest 14k heart shaped letter charms by NYC designer Tina Tang.

What would V-day be without indulging in our most pleasurable sin: chocolate.

New comer chocolateir Anand Chokkalingam handcrafts each of his spice-infused gourmet chocolates to create the most unique flavours you’ll ever taste, like Saffron Cardamom.

Or add a designer touch to show how you love thee with TCHO chocolates in limited edition packaging designed by Dutch artist Max Kisman.

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Lash up for Valentine’s Day: Free Lush Lash Application

February 11th, 2010 by Joyce

Valentine’s Day Thi Makeup Studio Offer:
On Saturday, Feb.13, Book a makeup application ($55) OR purchase any products over $55 and receive a complimentary eyelash application.

522 Bryant Street, Palo Alto
In-store promotion only.

To reserve a seat, call (650) 327-8880 or email studio@thicosmetics.com.

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Urban Daddy does Vday at W Hotel in San Francisco

February 11th, 2010 by Joyce

Sunday, Feb 14: 4pm – 7pm

FREE admission
FREE bubblies
WATCH or GET MARRIED at the pop-up wedding booth, VEGAS style.

RSVP HERE

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